"Mirror, mirror on the wall, Whose the fairest of them all?"
But the truth is, Not every mirror speaks the truth. Your reflection may not be exactly you. Sometimes you see yourself the right way, Sometimes the wrong way. Being self criticized is not the best way to move on. You will always find an excuse to comfort yourself eventhough you know, you are not potraying the best version of you at that time. Sometimes you need someone, To tell you the truth, "Hey, you look like a mess today." And guide you to not be messy.
Say, " shall we call on others besides Allah, which does not benefit us nor harm us and shall we be returned back on our heels after Allah has guided us, like him whom the syaitans have made to fall down perplexed in the earth. He has companions who call him to the right path, saying, "Come to us." Then say, "surely the guidance of Allah that is the true guidance, and we are commanded that we should submit to the Lord of the worlds." [6:71]
"Friends on that day will be foes, except for the righteous." [43:67]